Before we begin the Forgiveness step, here are some key points you need to be aware of: Below, and in the appendix, I have provided the template that you will use to complete this step of the process. As you start this process, you want to ensure that you are sitting in a comfortable place....
Circumstance to forgive (Step 1) All the years that I have spent participating in the Time4Money Exchange has left me feeling hopeless, bored and powerless. Forgiveness Statement (Step 2) I forgive myself for entering into and staying in a Time4Money Exchange that did not serve me. Although I was not aware I was doing...
To forgive others/situations/circumstances, we are going to use the same template we use for self-forgiveness. However, in the “circumstance to forgive” section, we will enter an external person or situation or circumstance that has caused us pain. The same instructions I gave you for the self-forgiveness stage apply here. Your summary statement regarding the others/situations/circumstances...
In the step of Acceptance, you have the opportunity to put a name to your “What Is”. You have the opportunity to accept and be at peace with it. If your boss is a jerk, then it is time to accept the fact so you can move beyond it. If you are working below your...
Now that we have released ourselves from the pain of a damaged relationship with work through Forgiveness and unleashed ourselves from the bonds of the past through Acceptance, we can move to our final step of the Work Relationship Healing Process. Up to this point in your relationship with work, others/circumstances have designed the relationship...
Nice work. Now that we have all the parts of your design completed, we are going to transform it into a whole. Using these parts, we are going to craft a relationship statement that reflects your personal design for your relationship with work. Your relationship statement will act as your True North. It will remind...
I decided to add this process step here at the end as a bonus step. I did so because this process step does not apply to everyone. But if it does apply to you, it truly is an important process to take yourself through to completely heal your relationship with work. This bonus process step...
No doubt as you contemplate the others/situations/circumstances that have contributed to your damaged relationship with work, you might be faced with the need to forgive those currently around you. You might wonder, “How do I forgive my boss when I have to see them every day?” Or “How do I forgive my employer for not...
If your boss is a jerk, then it is time to accept the fact so you can move beyond it. If you are working below your potential, then it is time to accept this fact so you can move beyond it. Yes, I know, this seems obvious. But why don’t we do it? Why do...
We have had our ups and downs over the years. At times in our relationship we were good for, and to, one another. Yet we have also disappointed each other and let each other down. Often, I have felt the thrill of a job well done, the excitement of a challenge well met, and the...
