Ways to Accept and Grow Circumstance to accept Despite working hard and giving all I had to my employer, I was laid off. What Is statement The truth of the situation in this very moment is that my employer no longer required my services. What Is statement The truth of the situation in this very...
Instructions for the Acceptance template In Step 1, you will summarize the situation/circumstance/person that you wish to accept. Circumstance to accept No matter how hard I work, in my performance reviews, my manager keeps bringing up things that happened years ago. Step 2 is the “What Is” statement. This is a statement about the truth...
Acceptance Through Acceptance, we will move beyond any situation/circumstance/person that has damaged our relationship with work in order to release ourselves from the prison of the past and accept our current circumstances as is. Unresolved pain, unresolved experiences can result in keeping us stuck in a particular moment. This ‘stuckness’ makes it really hard to...
Are Your Fears Keeping You From Your Dream Job? A long time ago, I saw this movie. I have forgotten the name of the movie and I don’t even remember what the movie was about. I only remember one scene from the movie. A woman is standing in an elevator with a man she been...
The Forgiveness Step: Forgiving others/situations/circumstances To forgive others/situations/circumstances, we are going to use the same template we use for self-forgiveness. However, in the “circumstance to forgive” section, we will enter an external person or situation or circumstance that has caused us pain. The same instructions I gave you for the self-forgiveness stage apply here. Your...
Extra Process Step: Processing Grief, Part 2 To continue, I got that although Laurel had made a decision that was right for her at the time, she hadn’t dealt with the disappointment and loss of her dream of becoming a human resources executive for her company. Right then I asked Laurel if she needed to...
Extra Process Step: Processing Grief, Part 1 This process step takes us to a place few of us willingly visit. But surprisingly, it is a necessity at least to open the door and look in, to ask ourselves if we need to spend some time here in order to have a healthy relationship with work....
Self-Forgiveness Sample Template Circumstance to forgive (Step 1) All the years that I have spent participating in the Time4Money Exchange has left me feeling hopeless, bored and powerless. Forgiveness Statement (Step 2) I forgive myself for entering into and staying in a Time4Money Exchange that did not serve me. Although I was not aware I...
The Forgiveness step: Self-Forgiveness Circumstance to forgive (Step 1) Forgiveness Statement (Step 2) Forgiveness Statement (Step 2) Forgiveness Statement (Step 2) Forgiveness Statement (Step 2) Forgiveness Statement (step 2) Gratitude Statement (Step 3) The first step in the Self-Forgiveness Template is to summarize the situation/circumstance/experience you wish to forgive yourself for. Write down the...
The Five Elements of a Healthy Work Relationship Now, let’s remind ourselves of the five elements that constitute a healthy relationship with work. These items are: Alignment with your gifts and talents and your boundaries. Expression. Fulfillment. Reward. Work serves you. When you design your relationship with work, you want to make sure that you...
